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Over the years first looks have become very popular but why?
So what is a first look?
The first look is when the soon-to-be married couple see each other for the first time on their wedding day before the ceremony.
When I got married 5 years ago, I wish I had known more about the first look. We weren’t able to capture all of the photos we wanted and 5 years later, I am still bummed out. I believe if we had done a first look, we would have been able to get all of our must-have photos!
Ok, so you know what the first look is. Let’s talk about why you should do it!
1. Private moment with your significant other.
You’ll realize at the end of your wedding day, that you’ve barely had any time with your spouse. Yes, you’ll be with them during the ceremony, photos and reception but there is so much going on during that time that you won’t have had a moment to yourselves. The first look creates that moment.
2. You can get the majority of your photos taken before the ceremony.
I believe that this is one of the biggest perks to having the first look. As I mentioned before, I believe if my husband and I had done a first look for our wedding, we would have all the images we wanted.
Cocktail hours usually aren’t long enough for family, wedding party and the new married couple to all have the photos done. You may not be able to mingle with your guests during cocktail hour.
Ask any photographer, we hate to feel like we don’t have enough time for your must-have photos!
3. Calms the nerves.
I don’t think it matters who, you’re going to have some nerves on your wedding day, I know I did! Seeing your soon-to-be husband or wife beforehand can make the nerves disappear. All of my couples have felt less nervous after!
Sounds great, right?!
You’re probably wondering what the downside to the first look is, and although there are things to consider, I still think the first look is a must! But let’s talk a little about what to consider.
1. You’ll need to get ready earlier.
Ideally, you’ll want the first look to take place 1.5-2 hours before the ceremony. This means you’ll need to get ready earlier. Depending on your ceremony start time, this tricky.
During your wedding consultation, let’s chat about this to see how we can fit the first look in your timeline (if that’s what you want!)
2. Possible challenges with lighting.
The best time for lighting is about an hour after sunrise and before sunset. Most people aren’t getting married at 7/8PM at night so most first looks are happening around 1/2PM. The lighting isn’t the best, but that shouldn’t stop you!
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With views of the Piscataqua River, Portsmouth is a dream destination for a wedding. There are so many unique shops tucked away and amazing restaurants with the best views.
Rooms right next to each other, Moira & Austin got ready for their beautiful Portsmouth wedding.
Before the wedding – engagement photos!
When I first met Moira & Austin in person for their engagement photos, it was clear that they were made for each other. Their chemistry was organic and nothing was forced.
They were up for anything during their engagement photos…even my weird prompts. When a couple is up for my weird requests, we were meant to work together!
Also, it was FREEZING and Moira rocked it. She didn’t complain once about how cold it was – she killed it!
6 months later…Wedding Day!
When I first saw Moira & Austin on their wedding day, they were getting ready in separate rooms. Both were SO excited to marry each other and you could tell. There were tears and nervousness (as to be expected!) but most of all pure excitement. They were an hour away from seeing each other on their wedding day.
The entire day was perfect. The weather, the couple, the vows (got me choked up), the guests, the party…absolute perfection.
Moira & Austin were meant to be. It was evident from the moment I met them. They bring out the best in each other and it is clear when you see them interact with one another.
Moira & Austin, the energy you bring is infectious and I feel so lucky to have been able to be part of your day.
Shoutout to the vendors that made their day possible!
Ceremony: Moffatt Ladd House & Gardens
Reception: Sheraton Portsmouth Harborside Hotel
Florist: Jardiniere Flowers
DJ: Jimi Carter – All Pro Events DJ
Cake & Desserts: Jacques Pastries
Stationary: Portsmouth Invitation Company
-Danielle
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Is there anything more magical than snowy engagement photos in Boston? I don’t think so!
Amy & Ryan met me at the Boston Public Gardens on a freezing January day, right after a snowstorm. They wanted fresh snow for their engagement photos and they got just that!
Amy and I first met 10 plus years ago at college! Go Vikings!! We were roommates for a couples years during our time at Salem State so when Amy reached out to me about being her wedding photographer, I immediately said yes!
When I first met with Amy and Ryan over zoom (my first interaction with Ryan), it was apparent from the beginning of the call that they are meant to be together. It’s hard to explain but I could just tell. They both laugh with each other so I knew we’d have a fun time at their engagement shoot.
As I mentioned, it was FREEZING the day of their engagement photos. A & R envisioned a snowy shoot since they are having a summer wedding (which I can’t wait for!)
I think we all laughed the entire shoot, it was so much fun! A & R were up for anything, especially my weird prompts. If a couple is up for my weird and awkward prompts, I know we were meant to work together!
Snowy Engagement photos in Boston are one of my favorites. There are so many places to take photos in a short distance. Another reason I love working with A & R…they were up for all the locations I wanted to take photos at even if it meant staying out longer in the cold.
Check out some of my favorite images. I think you’ll understand why I love this couple!
Looking to get engagement photos done, let’s chat!
