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I’ll wait… but honestly, I don’t think so!
When Elizabeth & Grady chose to do their engagement photos in Maine, it wasn’t just because of the scenery (though, let’s be real, it’s stunning). Maine is home for them, it’s where they grew up, where their love story began, and where they’ll soon be saying “I do.” Naturally, we wanted to capture all the beauty and meaning this place holds for them, so we picked a few different locations to showcase Maine’s coastal magic.
But here’s the thing about Maine, it always has surprises up its sleeve. Read more about these beautiful Maine engagement photos.
A Hidden Gem & The Fastest Fog Ever
Our first stop was a hidden gem whose name I still can’t remember, but wow, what a spot! Picture rocky cliffs jutting into the ocean, waves crashing below, and that perfect mix of rugged and romantic.
And then… the fog rolled in.
Now, there was zero fog in the forecast, but within minutes, it swept over the landscape like something out of a movie. I’ve seen fog before, but never moving this fast. Instead of fighting it, we embraced the moody, filmy vibe it created, because honestly, it made the photos even more magical.
Pemaquid Point: A Classic Maine Icon, Now Fogged In
Next up: Pemaquid Point. If you’ve never been, it’s one of the most beautiful spots on the Maine coast, complete with a lighthouse, massive rock formations, and endless ocean views. Well, usually endless ocean views.
By the time we got there, the fog had fully settled in. You couldn’t even see the ocean, but instead of being a setback, it gave the session a dreamy, intimate feel. We made the most of it, and I loved how the fog softened everything, giving the photos a timeless, filmy quality.
The Beach: A Foggy, Minimalist Dream
Our final stop was a beach (again, name forgotten but trust me, it was gorgeous). At this point, the fog was thick. You could only see the sand and water if you got close enough. Instead of sweeping ocean views, we got something even more unique: a quiet, minimalist scene where the only focus was Elizabeth & Grady. And honestly? It was perfect.
Oh, and let’s talk about Elizabeth for a second. She did all of this while still recovering from ankle surgery! She didn’t just power through, she fully embraced every moment, climbing over rocks, walking across sand, and making the session feel effortless. She absolutely crushed it.
So… Is There a Better Location Than Coastal Maine?
After this session? I’d say no. Coastal Maine gives you a little bit of everything—epic landscapes, unexpected weather, and those quiet, intimate moments that make engagement photos so special. Whether it’s sunshine, fog, or something in between, Maine always delivers.
Thinking about your own engagement session? Let’s create something just as unforgettable!
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Over the years first looks have become very popular but why?
So what is a first look?
The first look is when the soon-to-be married couple see each other for the first time on their wedding day before the ceremony.
When I got married 5 years ago, I wish I had known more about the first look. We weren’t able to capture all of the photos we wanted and 5 years later, I am still bummed out. I believe if we had done a first look, we would have been able to get all of our must-have photos!
Ok, so you know what the first look is. Let’s talk about why you should do it!
1. Private moment with your significant other.
You’ll realize at the end of your wedding day, that you’ve barely had any time with your spouse. Yes, you’ll be with them during the ceremony, photos and reception but there is so much going on during that time that you won’t have had a moment to yourselves. The first look creates that moment.
2. You can get the majority of your photos taken before the ceremony.
I believe that this is one of the biggest perks to having the first look. As I mentioned before, I believe if my husband and I had done a first look for our wedding, we would have all the images we wanted.
Cocktail hours usually aren’t long enough for family, wedding party and the new married couple to all have the photos done. You may not be able to mingle with your guests during cocktail hour.
Ask any photographer, we hate to feel like we don’t have enough time for your must-have photos!
3. Calms the nerves.
I don’t think it matters who, you’re going to have some nerves on your wedding day, I know I did! Seeing your soon-to-be husband or wife beforehand can make the nerves disappear. All of my couples have felt less nervous after!
Sounds great, right?!
You’re probably wondering what the downside to the first look is, and although there are things to consider, I still think the first look is a must! But let’s talk a little about what to consider.
1. You’ll need to get ready earlier.
Ideally, you’ll want the first look to take place 1.5-2 hours before the ceremony. This means you’ll need to get ready earlier. Depending on your ceremony start time, this tricky.
During your wedding consultation, let’s chat about this to see how we can fit the first look in your timeline (if that’s what you want!)
2. Possible challenges with lighting.
The best time for lighting is about an hour after sunrise and before sunset. Most people aren’t getting married at 7/8PM at night so most first looks are happening around 1/2PM. The lighting isn’t the best, but that shouldn’t stop you!
