wedding journal

You’re engaged…woohoo! Now comes the fun (and sometimes overwhelming) part, researching and booking vendors. When it comes to photography, you might be wondering: what questions to ask a wedding photographer? Having been on both sides, planning my own wedding and now working as a wedding photographer, I’ve learned there are things I wish I had asked and things I want my potential clients to know. So, let’s dive into the must-ask questions to help you find the perfect photographer for your big day!

1. What is your style, and how do you approach a wedding day?

This is such an important question because every photographer has a unique style and approach! Some focus on a documentary, candid style, while others lean towards a more posed, editorial look. Their approach to a wedding day can also vary, do they take charge and direct moments, or do they blend into the background and capture things as they naturally unfold?

It’s essential to find a photographer whose style matches your vision and whose personality makes you feel comfortable. Ask to see full wedding galleries, not just highlight reels, to get a true sense of how they capture an entire day.

2. What is your backup plan? If you aren’t able to be there on my wedding day due to an emergency, what happens?

Life is unpredictable, and while no one likes to think about worst-case scenarios, it’s important to know your photographer has a solid backup plan in place. Ask if they have a trusted network of photographers who can step in if needed. Do they have second shooters or assistants who could take over?

3. What happens to my photos after the wedding? Do they get deleted once delivered, or do you keep them?

This is so important, I can’t stress it enough! After your wedding, your photos (and video, if chosen) are the one thing you have left from the day. You want to make sure your photographer has processes in place to keep your images safe.

Ask about their backup system, do they use dual memory cards while shooting? How and where are the photos stored after the wedding? How long do they keep them? Also, find out how long your online gallery will be active and whether there’s a fee to have it re-uploaded if needed.

For me, both of my cameras have dual memory cards, and as soon as I get home, I upload everything to my computer, two hard drives, and the cloud. And they never get deleted. Like, never. I keep online galleries active for a year, but since I always have backups, I can easily re-upload them, for free.

Quick story: A bride from 2021 reached out to me today because her wedding photos were on an old device, and she forgot to move them over. She thought she’d ask if I still had them but understood that I probably didn’t… but I did! I was able to re-upload her photos, and she was beyond grateful.

Not all photographers keep images forever, and some charge to re-upload galleries, so it’s crucial to ask before booking. That way, you know what to expect and can take any necessary steps to back up your photos yourself!

4. What does communication look like when working with you?

Planning a wedding involves a lot of moving parts, so knowing how and when you can communicate with your photographer is key. Ask what their preferred method of communication is, can you text them, or is it strictly email? How many meetings are included in your package? What’s their typical response time?

For me, I want my couples to feel like they can reach out anytime! I’m available via email and text, and I include however many meetings needed in my collections to go over details, timelines, and any questions you have. I also aim to respond within 24 hours/days because I know how important quick communication is when planning a wedding.

Every photographer has a different approach, so it’s important to find someone whose communication style aligns with your needs and expectations. The last thing you want is to feel like you’re left in the dark leading up to your big day!

5. Do you have insurance?

This one is pretty simple, all professional photographers should have insurance, especially when working at venues (and most venues require it!). Liability insurance protects both you and the photographer in case of accidents, and equipment insurance ensures that if anything happens to their gear, your wedding day coverage isn’t at risk.

6. How long until I get my final gallery?

Turnaround time is an important detail to discuss and should be clearly stated in your contract. Some photographers take several months, while others have a quicker turnaround depending on their workload.

For me, I take on a limited number of weddings each year so that no one has to wait months and months for their photos. I believe in delivering galleries in a timely manner while maintaining the highest quality.

Make sure to ask about sneak peeks as well, some photographers provide a small selection of edited images within a few days so you have something to share while you wait for the full gallery!

7. What do you love about weddings?

Ask this!! The person you choose should truly love photographing weddings. You want someone who is passionate, excited, and genuinely cares about capturing your day, not just someone who sees it as another job.

When your photographer is just as excited about your wedding as you are, it makes the experience that much better!

8. What is your booking process?

Understanding the booking process upfront ensures there are no surprises. Ask what’s required to officially secure your date, do they require a retainer fee? When is the final payment due? What does the contract include?

For me, I make the process as simple and clear as possible. A signed contract and retainer fee are required to lock in your date, and I provide a payment schedule so you always know what to expect. Everything should be discussed in advance, so you’re never left wondering about the next step!

9. Can I see full wedding galleries?

You should always be able to view a couple of full galleries from real weddings! While Instagram and website portfolios showcase the best highlights, they don’t show how a photographer captures an entire wedding day, from getting ready to the ceremony, reception, and all the in-between moments.

Seeing full galleries will give you a better idea of their consistency, editing style, and how they handle different lighting situations. It’s one of the best ways to make sure their work aligns with your vision for your own wedding photos!

Choosing the right wedding photographer is about more than just loving their photos—it’s about trusting them to capture one of the most important days of your life. By asking what questions to ask a wedding photographer, you’ll gain a better understanding of their style, process, and professionalism, ensuring they’re the perfect fit for you.

If you’re looking for a photographer who truly cares about your experience, values communication, and will preserve your memories with passion, I’d love to chat! Reach out here to inquire about your date, ask any additional questions, or just say hello! And be sure to check out my Pinterest to get wedding inspo!

I’ll wait… but honestly, I don’t think so!

When Elizabeth & Grady chose to do their engagement photos in Maine, it wasn’t just because of the scenery (though, let’s be real, it’s stunning). Maine is home for them, it’s where they grew up, where their love story began, and where they’ll soon be saying “I do.” Naturally, we wanted to capture all the beauty and meaning this place holds for them, so we picked a few different locations to showcase Maine’s coastal magic.

But here’s the thing about Maine, it always has surprises up its sleeve. Read more about these beautiful Maine engagement photos.

A Hidden Gem & The Fastest Fog Ever

Our first stop was a hidden gem whose name I still can’t remember, but wow, what a spot! Picture rocky cliffs jutting into the ocean, waves crashing below, and that perfect mix of rugged and romantic.

And then… the fog rolled in.

Now, there was zero fog in the forecast, but within minutes, it swept over the landscape like something out of a movie. I’ve seen fog before, but never moving this fast. Instead of fighting it, we embraced the moody, filmy vibe it created, because honestly, it made the photos even more magical.

Pemaquid Point: A Classic Maine Icon, Now Fogged In

Next up: Pemaquid Point. If you’ve never been, it’s one of the most beautiful spots on the Maine coast, complete with a lighthouse, massive rock formations, and endless ocean views. Well, usually endless ocean views.

By the time we got there, the fog had fully settled in. You couldn’t even see the ocean, but instead of being a setback, it gave the session a dreamy, intimate feel. We made the most of it, and I loved how the fog softened everything, giving the photos a timeless, filmy quality.

The Beach: A Foggy, Minimalist Dream

Our final stop was a beach (again, name forgotten but trust me, it was gorgeous). At this point, the fog was thick. You could only see the sand and water if you got close enough. Instead of sweeping ocean views, we got something even more unique: a quiet, minimalist scene where the only focus was Elizabeth & Grady. And honestly? It was perfect.

Oh, and let’s talk about Elizabeth for a second. She did all of this while still recovering from ankle surgery! She didn’t just power through, she fully embraced every moment, climbing over rocks, walking across sand, and making the session feel effortless. She absolutely crushed it.

So… Is There a Better Location Than Coastal Maine?

After this session? I’d say no. Coastal Maine gives you a little bit of everything—epic landscapes, unexpected weather, and those quiet, intimate moments that make engagement photos so special. Whether it’s sunshine, fog, or something in between, Maine always delivers.

Thinking about your own engagement session? Let’s create something just as unforgettable!

When it comes to weddings, there are some days that just feel magical from start to finish. Alix and Wiley’s wedding at Turner Hill in Ipswich was one of those rare and unforgettable occasions. From the couple’s radiant smiles to the flawless coordination of every detail, everything came together in a way that made this day simply perfect.

Turner Hill in Ipswich, with its stunning grounds and historic charm, provided the perfect backdrop for Alix and Wiley’s celebration. Nestled in the picturesque town of Ipswich, this venue combines the elegance of a classic New England estate with the warmth of rustic sophistication. The manicured gardens, grand estate, and sweeping views offered an unforgettable atmosphere for both the ceremony and reception.

Side note – if you haven’t been to Turner Hill yet, you’re missing out. It’s one of my favorite venues. With its unique blend of history and natural beauty, it offers something special for every couple.

Engagement Photos

When I first met Alix and Wiley, we instantly clicked. It felt like I had known them for a long time. Their personalities are so easygoing, kind, and filled with a deep respect for one another. And, let’s not forget, they are so cute and undeniably in love, it was a breeze working with them from start to finish. They made every moment effortless and fun, and their love for each other was truly inspiring.

And, to top it all off, Alix and Wiley brought their adorable pup along to both their engagement session and wedding day! She completely stole the show.

I realized I never posted about Alix and Wiley’s engagement photos…yikes! So, I wanted to share a few of those photos now. We also took these at Turner Hill, which provided a stunning, timeless backdrop for their engagement session. The couple was so natural in front of the camera, and we had such a fun time capturing their connection and excitement. Whether they were sharing a laugh, walking hand-in-hand, or simply enjoying each other’s company, their love for one another was clearly evident.

The Wedding Planning Queen

One of the things that truly stood out about this wedding was the planning process and all the credit goes to Alix. I have to give a huge shout-out to her because she deserves all the praise for the flawless execution of this day. Alix planned everything and I really mean everything. From the stunning invitations to custom cufflinks for the groom and matching pajamas for the bridal party, she put so much love and detail into every aspect of the celebration.

Alix truly has an eye for design and a knack for making everything feel personal and meaningful. The first dance, for instance, was beyond beautiful, they took dance lessons to ensure it was a moment that was unforgettable.

I’ve told Alix many times that she should seriously consider a career in wedding planning because she is a total natural. She made it look so effortless, but I know just how much thought and work went into bringing her vision to life.

The Wedding Day: Perfection in Every Moment

First Look with Dad

Alix and her dad share such a special bond, and their first look was one of the most emotional moments of the day. It was so beautiful to witness his pride and love for her as he saw her in her gown for the first time. It was a moment of pure joy and love, and I feel so grateful to have captured it.

First Look with Wiley

Alix’s first look with Wiley was absolutely breathtaking. She looked stunning, and his reaction was priceless. He was completely taken aback by her beauty. It was one of the best first looks I’ve ever seen because you could literally feel the excitement and anticipation for this next chapter of their lives together. And, of course, their pup joined them for this special moment too, adding an extra dose of cuteness to the scene.

A Special Moment at the 10th Hole

Right after the ceremony, we hopped into a golf cart and headed over to the 10th hole, where Wiley had previously asked for Alix’s father’s blessing. It was such a unique and memorable moment! The couple was able to tee off together, and their family and friends were able to watch from the ceremony site. This was particularly special because Alix and Wiley are members at Turner Hill and very involved with the club, so they were able to make this happen. It was such a cool experience, and I’m so glad they were able to incorporate a piece of their lives and memories into their wedding day.

A Day to Remember Forever

As the evening came to a close, I couldn’t help but reflect on just how perfect everything turned out. Alix and Wiley’s wedding was a perfect blend of beauty, joy, love, and fun. A celebration that everyone will remember for years to come. From the heartfelt vows to the unforgettable first looks, and of course, the unforgettable moment on the golf course, it was a day to remember forever.

Thank you to Alix and Wiley for letting me be a part of their amazing day. It was truly an honor. Here’s to a lifetime of love, laughter, and happiness!

The vendor that made the day seamless:

Photographer – @daniellelittlesphoto
Venue – @themansiononturnerhill
DJ – @begeventgroup
Videographer – @alexcole.photography
Florist- @justbloomdweddings
Caterer – @vinwoodcaterers
Dessert – @mayflour_
Make-up – @makeup.by.marlo
Hair – @faithdoeshair__style
Dress – @flairboston
Suits – @gibleesmenswear
Invitations – designed by bride and art by @ezymba_art
2nd shooter – @heatherlittlefieldphoto
Content creator – @marriedandsocial

If you’re getting married at Turner Hill in Ipswich, we should totally connect!